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**Deja ir a la gente que no está lista para amarte.
Esto es lo más difícil que tendrás que hacer en tu vida y también será lo más importante.
Deja de tener conversaciones difíciles con personas que no quieren cambiar.
Deja de aparecer para las personas que no tienen interés en tu presencia.
Sé que tu instinto es hacer todo lo posible para ganar el aprecio de los que te rodean, pero es un impulso que roba tu tiempo, energía, salud mental y física.
Cuando empiezas a luchar por una vida con alegría, interés y compromiso, no todo el mundo estará listo para seguirte a ese lugar.
Eso no significa que tengas que cambiar lo que eres, significa que debes dejar ir a las personas que no están listas para acompañarte.
Si eres excluido, insultado, olvidado o ignorado por las personas a las que les regalas tu tiempo, no te haces un favor al seguir ofreciéndoles tu energía y tu vida.
La verdad es que no eres para todo el mundo y no todos son para ti.
Esto es lo que hace tan especial cuando encuentras a personas con las que tienes amistad o amor correspondido.
Sabrás lo precioso que es porque has experimentado lo que no lo es.
Hay miles de millones de personas en este planeta y muchas de ellas las vas a encontrar a tu nivel de interés y compromiso.
Tal vez si dejas de aparecer, no te busquen.
Tal vez si dejas de intentarlo, la relación termine.
Tal vez si dejas de enviar mensajes, tu teléfono permanecerá oscuro durante semanas.
Eso no significa que arruinaste la relación, significa que lo único que la sostenía era la energía que solo tú dabas para mantenerla.
Eso no es amor, es apego.
Es dar una oportunidad a quien no lo merece!
Tú mereces mucho más.
Lo más valioso que tienes en tu vida es tu tiempo y energía, ya que ambos son limitados.
A las personas y cosas que le des tu tiempo y energía, definirá tu existencia.
Cuando te das cuenta de esto empiezas a entender por qué estás tan ansioso cuando pasas tiempo con personas, actividades o espacios que no te convienen y no deben estar cerca de ti.
Empezarás a darte cuenta que lo más importante que puedes hacer por ti mismo y por todos los que te rodean, es proteger tu energía más ferozmente que cualquier otra cosa.
Haz de tu vida un refugio seguro, en el que solo se permiten personas “compatibles” contigo.
No eres responsable de salvar a nadie.
No eres responsable de convencerles de mejorar.
No es tu trabajo existir para la gente y darles tu vida!
Te mereces amistades reales, compromisos verdaderos y un amor completo con personas saludables y prósperas.
La decisión de tomar distancia con personas nocivas, te dará el amor, la estima, la felicidad y la protección que te mereces.
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**LET GO OF PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT PREPARED TO LOVE YOU
Let go of the people who are not prepared to love you
written by Anthony Hopkins.
′′Let go the people who are not prepared
to love you.
This is the hardest thing you will have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing. Stop having hard conversations with people who don’t want change.
Stop showing up for people who have no interest in your presence.
I know your instinct is to do everything to earn the appreciation of those around you.
But it’s a boost that steals your time, energy, mental and physical health.
When you begin to fight for a life with joy, interest and commitment, not everyone will be ready to follow you in this place.
This doesn’t mean you need to change what you are.
It means you should let go of the people who aren’t ready to accompany you.
If you are excluded, insulted, forgotten or ignored by the people you give your time to...
...you don’t do yourself a favor by continuing to offer your energy and your life.
The truth is...
You are not for everyone.
And not everyone is for you.
That’s what makes it so special when you meet people who reciprocate love.
You will know how precious you are.
The more time you spend trying to make yourself loved by someone who is unable to, the more time you waste depriving yourself of the possibility of this connection to someone else.
There are billions of people on this planet.
And many of them will meet with you at your level of interest and commitment.
The more you stay involved with people who use you as a pillow, a background option or a therapist for emotional healing, the longer you stay away from the community you want.
Maybe if you stop showing up, you won’t be wanted.
And maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end.
Or maybe if you stop texting your phone will stay dark for weeks.
That doesn’t mean you ruined the relationship.
It means the only thing holding it back was the energy that only you gave to keep it.
This is not love.
It’s attachment.
It’s wanting to give a chance to those who don’t deserve it.
You deserve so much.
There are people who should not be in your life.
The most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and energy.
Both are limited.
When you give your time and energy, it will define your existence.
And when you realize this...
You begin to understand why you are so anxious when you spend time with people, in activities, places or situations that don’t suit you and shouldn’t be around you, your energy is stolen.
You will begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself (and for everyone around you) is to protect your energy more fiercely than anything else.
Make your life a safe haven, in which only ′ ′compatible′′ people are allowed.
You’re not responsible for saving anyone.
You are not responsible for convincing them to
improve.
It’s not your work to exist for people and give your life to them!
If you feel bad, if you feel compelled, you will be the root of all your problems, fearing that they will not return the favors you have granted.
It’s your only obligation to realize that you are the love of your destiny.
And accept the love you deserve.
Decide that you deserve true friendship, commitment, true and complete love with healthy and prosperous people.
Then wait and see how much everything begins to change.
Don’t waste time with people who are not worth it.
Change will give you the love, the esteem, happiness and the protection you deserve.”
**Crédito: actor Anthony Hopkins, autor
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